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As Valentine's Day approaches, the spotlight often shines brightly on romantic love, leaving another vital type of relationship in its shadow: friendship. Specifically, female friendships are the unsung heroes of our lives, providing a foundation of support, love, and companionship that can outlast even the most enduring romantic partnerships. This is why Galentine's Day, celebrated on February 13th, is a holiday that should not be overlooked.
The Origins of Galentine's Day
Galentine's Day was first introduced by Leslie Knope, a character from the popular TV show Parks and Recreation, played by Amy Poehler. The idea is simple yet profound: to celebrate and uplift female friendships. By placing it on the eve of Valentine's Day, Galentine's Day symbolically asserts the importance of these relationships, reminding us that love comes in many forms, not just romantic.
The Power of Female Friendships
Research consistently shows that close friendships are a lifeline, often more crucial over a lifetime than romantic relationships. Female friendships, in particular, have the power to improve every aspect of life, from mental health to longevity. They provide a network of support through life's ups and downs—heartbreaks, marriages, health scares, and more. These friendships are built on trust, mutual support, and a deep understanding that can be just as fulfilling as any romantic partnership.
Celebrating Galentine's Day
Celebrating Galentine's Day doesn't have to be elaborate. It can be as simple as a dinner out, a happy hour, or a walk in nature with friends. The act of showing appreciation for these unique relationships is what matters most. Whether you're single or in a relationship, Galentine's Day is about acknowledging the people who have been there for you through thick and thin.
Navigating Challenges in Friendships
While female friendships enrich our lives, they aren't always easy. Unlike romantic relationships, there's no clear roadmap for navigating challenges in friendships. Authors Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman, in their book Big Friendship, share their experience of working through a tough patch in their friendship with the help of a couple's therapist—a practice that, while unconventional, highlights the importance of investing in these relationships.
Honoring the Bonds That Last
In an era where Americans are trending toward having fewer close friends, honoring those who have made it through life's journey with us is crucial. Galentine's Day offers a chance to center these friendships, recognizing the hard work and dedication that goes into maintaining them. It's a celebration not just of having confidants but of the deep, meaningful relationships that can last a lifetime.
Source:
Myisha Battle, Time Magazine https://time.com/7221617/galentines-day-single-people-essay/
Image Credit: Illustration by Christina Lee for TIME